#90 Pinky swears

Do you remember RSVPs?

Yes, back in second grade when I scored a birthday party invite there was some social protocol that followed. I put the brightly colored cardboard on the fridge, we checked the kitchen calendar, and my mom phoned the other kid’s mom to let them know I’d be there.

The RSVP was my firm, unwavering commitment to an afternoon full of sweaty backyard races, spicy carpetburn, and screaming sugar highs. When you said you’d be there you’d be there.

These days the world is full of buzzing phones, double-booking, and changing plans. Texts sit unanswered, parties shrink and shift, and sometimes nobody knows who’s coming or going.

That’s where pinky swears come in.

When someone offers a pinky, they’re showing that they’re actually interested in following through. Accept that pinky and you enter into an unbreakable promise to get there too.

Locking pinkies and making the oath of commitment is a break from the World of Waffling. Suddenly the half-smile and headnod expectations we had get airlifted to a higher place. After pinky-promising to host the party, ask him to prom, or finish the project, we’re suddenly sitting together on the top of the mountain – with the world of empty seats, unasked questions, and broken promises lying far, far below us.

AWESOME!

Hey everyone,

Happy Friday.

It’s been a wild year so to help celebrate everything winding down I’m giving away $2000 worth of gifts to spread some holiday happiness. Prizes include signed copies of The Books of Awesome, signed copies of my new book The Happiness Equation (which you’ll read months before anyone in the world!), and tons more. Check it out right here.

The way it works is the more you spread the word the more likely you are to win. Every friend you refer gets you three extra entries.

Last thing! Our final holiday shipment of signed bookplates goes out this Thursday. So, as with previous years, if you bought any of my books for someone you love and would like them signed, just send an email to erin@globalhappiness.org with your address and we’ll drop a free signed bookplate in the mail. Thanks as always for spreading the love.

Good luck in the contest! And happy holidays everyone,

Neil